What role does Parents play in their Kids' Eating Disorders?

Did I pass Overeating and Obesity
on to my child? Is it genetic?
Is it my fault? 

I know about the worry and guilt when you struggle with food yourself, and now your child has a problem too. You don't have to worry anymore, there is a way to help you and your child.
Let me help you...

If you are a Mom who suffers from an eating disorder then you already know about the fear of giving "this thing" to your children.

I have written a 12 Week online course that is partly based on my own experiences and fears, including passing EATING DISORDERS on to my children. I know about the anxiety when you see similar things in your child as well as the unbearable load of guilt that comes with it. One of the reasons I wrote this course was  to help other women break free from and Eating Disorder and more importantly, give them some tools, methods and knowledge that they can pass on to their children.

Your children may already be dealing with some of the same issues as you, because of the same reasons as you: Genetics, learned behavior, influence of the media, hurtful experiences, and demonic oppression. I discuss all of these areas and more in my Online course.

Let me ask you this:
If you have found ways to walk in victory in the midst of all of life's difficulties, and could hand your kids those same tools, wouldn't that mean so much more to them than having a Mom who claims to be perfect, and who has no clue of what they're dealing with or how to help them?

Research shows that children learn primarily by what we model and not so much by what we say. Hence the expressions: "Teach by example" or "Practice what you preach". So what your mom modeled through her eating habits, physical activity, dieting behaviors and body image influenced you more than you would ever know.

The shocking part is that these influences start at a very early age. Just as a little girl likes to put on Mommy's shoes and jewelry, she "fits" on Mom's way of eating and talking about herself.

The child who sees her mom eat and watch TV all the time are at risk, but the one who sees her mom obsess about calories and skipping meals, are also in grave danger of developing an eating disorder.

We sometimes make the mistake, I know I did, of thinking that our children don't see, because they don't say anything. Yet one day you might find them act just like you, because they did see, and they internalized this as the correct way to behave towards food and their bodies.

Girls are usually more sensitive than boys, and for this reason they are especially at risk when they hear their moms talk about their own bodies in demeanor ways. They can easily project their mother's words on their own bodies: If she think she's fat and ugly then I must be fat and ugly too.

Girls also tend to pick up on non verbal cues, such as: Not taking care of our bodies and ignoring it's needs for good food, exercise, rest and restoration in God's presence. If they see you work from dawn till dusk, never resting, never praying and hardly eating, they will find it extremely hard to take care of their own bodies.

NOW, WHAT CAN YOU DO?

If you look at the above mentioned facts then there is no greater gift you can give your children than to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF and thus TEACH BY EXAMPLE.
Find freedom and healing from eating disorders for yourself FIRST.

I am a Woman, Wife, and Mom just like you, and I'm still amazed and filled with wonder that God actually set me free from Eating Disorders. I have four kids and it is such a relief to not have the fear and guilt grip my heart every time I see one of them eat too much or too little. I know today that I am setting a good example, and I can help them if they ever have to walk this difficult road themselves.

In this Online Course I've been totally honest about my painful and lonely struggle with food, as well as the journey that lead me to freedom. I want to help you find answers that actually make sense.
I also want to help you find a road map out of this nightmare! For you, but also for your children.

Come one, let the bug stop with you. You can be the one who tip the scales for the generations that come after you.

Now: How does this course work?

Daily step-by-step Freedom Plan: Lifetime access

Most ladies I encounter can not just clear out a chunk of time in their schedule to "heal-up". We all have jobs, kids, households, pets and husbands (not necessarily in that order :)
For this reason I chose to present the information, principles and life changes that brought me freedom to you in a week by week study, with the understanding that you would take at least one week per unit.
However, if you need MORE time to work through a week, I would highly recommend that you take all the time you need.

No diet and no amount of will-power will ever do it!

My heart goes out to every woman and mom out there who already give so much of themselves and has to do it with the burden of something as devastating as an eating disorder.
This is why I bring an updated version of this course that I have been using for years, to you online, with approximately 100 daily videos and at least 300 pages of material.

THERE'S NO TIME LIMIT 

You do it at your own pace 

IT'S A MEMBERSHIP FOR LIFE!

See how 12 Weeks can impact your Life Forever!

**Take a look at these videos**

Week 1:
Do I have an eating disorder?

 

Week 2:
Does God even care?

Week 3:
Am I a Food Addict?

 

Week 4:
Is this a diet?

 

Week 5:
What to do if you simply hate exercise?

Week 6:
Why do I feel so bad about myself?

 

Week 7:
I don't want to dig in my past!

 

Week 8:
Who can I blame for this?

Week 9:
Can't I just live on an Island?

 

Week 10:
I don't think I'm a perfectionist, am I?

 

Week 11:
I pray, I try, but I just can't say NO!

 

Week 12:
  What if I'm not free after 12 Weeks?

 

*NOW*
As a member you will have access to:

A POWERFUL 12 Week Online Study Course This includes:  Life time access to the membership website which will be updated with the latest research and findings in the field of eating disorders.    Over 300 pages of written material that includes; facts from reliable sources, my own testimony, testimonies and case studies of other women, encouragement and practical guidelines for you.  Approximately 100 Videos for you to watch. You will have an average of 7 videos to watch every week. So you will have AT LEAST one video to watch per day throughout the 12 weeks. I made these videos to help you with the isolation of this struggle and keep you going. In these videos I share with you: My honest testimony of years in captivity as well as my journey to freedom. Insight and knowledge I acquired through observing and talking to many women with eating disorders over the years. Methods and plans I found to be either helpful or dangerous. Tons of information I gathered, through extensive reading and studying, in my search for answers.  Step-by-step guidelines to help you apply the material to your life. I wanted to go beyond mere information, but give you some practical things to do to make it real and make sure you experience change.

+Bonuses 

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Heleen Woest